Saturday, 16 November 2013
10 things that make ur marriage work
10 simple ways to make your marriage
stronger
1. When you wake up...no
matter how short or long
the marriage is, kiss her
good morning DONT GREET
HER!
2. When he comes
home...DONT SIT DOWN,
wake up and meet him at
the door, a hug and/or kiss
and ask how his day
was....he spent most of it
trying to make sure you
guys have food in the
house.
3. Before you sleep, PRAY
TOGETHER AS A FAMILY, and
in your prayers, always
thank God for your spouse
and for his/her love and
dedication to the family.
4. Daily no matter how
tired you are, spend a few
minutes to discuss how the
day was what challenges
you both met and how you
handled the situation.
5. Find a moment to
encourage each other from
scriptures. If you can get a
devotional guide, let each
person handle a day of the
week including kids (if they
can)
6. Just because you married
her, life does not stop. At
least once a month, take
her out to dinner, spend the
evening just the two of you
outside the house eating
and talking-just the same
way you tried convincing
her to marry you.
7. Be proud of your
husband/wife. Walk
together holding hands,
text during the day...your
wife/husband should be
your best friend, so those
stuff you talk to your
friends, include your
spouse, ask silly questions
like what are you having
for lunch? What would you
like for supper? Can i get
you anything? Did you get
to work? Oh i just called to
day i miss you....Have you
left work? etc...
8. People get scared to talk
about this but sex does
destroy marriages. SATISFY
your husband/ wife
sexually..it is a gift that can
be perfectly enjoyed in holy
matrimony...itsnot a sin
when you are married. So
stop feeling guilty and
make sure your sex life is
completely satisfied and
enjoyed by the two of you.
Do not give room for your
spouse to be tempted
sexually outside of
marriage because in it you
cannot give in.
9. Everyday never forget to
say you love your husband/wife at least 5times. Saying
i love you, never gets boring, it never gets
rhetorical it never hurts for
someone to hear. "its a
delicious meal, i love you"
"wow, you came early....i
love you swry" "will you
please get some bread as
you come? I love you"
"good night my love"
"wakey wakey swry time
for breakfast love"
10. Never go to bed angry,
solve those arguments with
love. Fight all you can but
at the end, remember to
pray together, pray for
your love and marriage and
the goodnight has to have
"i love you". Always
remember a family that
prays together stays
together
Tuesday, 12 November 2013
10 Simple Steps To Financial Security
Being
financially secure enough to enjoy your life in retirement is the last
thing on the minds of those under 30. After all, with the stress of all
the expensive "firsts" that often come about during this period, like
purchasing a car, buying a house and starting a family, it's hard to
even think about saving for the future. However, working toward
financial security need not be an exercise in self-deprivation, as many
people assume. Attaining this goal even has some immediate benefits, as
financial insecurity can become a serious source of stress - something
20-somethings have enough of already. So can you
achieve long-term financial security without sacrificing your short-term
goals? Read on for 10 tips on how to do just that.1. Have FunEnjoy
yourself while you are young - you will have plenty of time to be
miserable when you are older. Living a successful, enjoyable and happy
life is about achieving a proper balance between time with family and
friends and between work and leisure time. Striking a proper balance
between your life today and your future is also important. Financially,
we can't live as if today was our last day. We have to decide between
what we spend today versus what we spend in the future. Finding the
correct balance is an important first step toward achieving financial
security.2. Recognize Your Most Important Financial Asset: YourselfYour
skills, knowledge and experience are the biggest asset you have. The
value of your future earnings will dwarf any savings or investments you
might have for most of your career. Your job and future career is the
most important factor in achieving financial independence and security.
For those just entering the work force, future career opportunities are
as bright as they've ever been. The large number of retiring baby boomers
is expected to create labor shortages. There will be room for
advancement as companies scramble to fill the positions held by these
aging baby boomers. Those who are in a position to take advantage of
these opportunities will benefit the most.Look at
yourself as a financial asset. Investing in yourself will pay off in the
future. Increase your value through hard work, continual upgrading of
skills and knowledge, and making smart career choices. Efforts to
improve your career can have a far bigger impact on your financial
security than tightening your belt and trying to save more.
3. Become a Planner, Not a Saver: Research has shown that those who plan for the future end up with more wealth than those who do not. Successful people are goal oriented: they set goals and develop a plan to achieve them. For example, if you set a goal to pay off your student loans in two years, you'll have a better chance of achieving this goal than you would if you merely said you wanted to pay off your student loans, but failed to set a timetable.
Become a planner. Set goals and develop an action plan to reach them. Even the process of writing down some goals will help you to achieve them. Being goal oriented and following a plan means taking control of your life. It is an important step toward improving your financial independence and security.
4. Set Short-Term Goals - Long-Term Goals Will Take Care of ThemselvesLife holds many uncertainties - and a lot can change between now and 30 years into the future. As such, the prospect of planning far into the future is a daunting task and in many ways, it's often an exercise in futility for young investors. Rather than setting long-term goals, set a series of small short-term goals. These goals could be a simple as trying to pay off credit card debt or student loans in a matter of months. Maybe your goal is to contribute to your company's pension plan with a set salary reduction contribution each month. Setting short-term goals that will help you to advance in your career is important in helping you get ahead. Remember, these short-term goals should be measurable and precise. You can't win a race if there's no finish line. As you achieve your short-term goals, set other short-term goals. Maybe you want to buy a house, earn a promotion at work or buy a new car. The constant setting and achieving of short-term goals will ensure that you reach your longer-term goals. If your goal is to be worth a million dollars by age 40, you cannot achieve this without first achieving smaller goals like having $10,000, $50,000 or $500,000.5. Planning For Retirement: Fuggetaboutit?Just out of school, retirement planning is the last thing on your mind. So, if you have to for now, just fuggetaboutit. If you follow the other tips, you will not only be more financially secure and prepared in the short term, but you will also be financially prepared for the distant future as well. However, if you take a few steps now to start saving, like setting up automatic monthly contributions to a retirement plan like an employer-sponsored 401(k) or your own Roth IRA, compounding will work in your favor, which makes reaching your goal much easier.
6. Make Sure Your Lifestyle Costs Lag Your Income GrowthMany new graduates find that in the first couple years of working they have excess cash flow. Still used to their more frugal student spending habits, it is easy to make more money than they need. Rather than using excess income to buy new toys and live a more luxurious lifestyle, this excess could be put toward reducing debt or adding to savings. As you advance in your career and attain greater responsibility, your salary should increase. If the cost of your lifestyle lags your income growth, you will always have excess cash flow that can be put toward paying down debt, making investments, saving for a home, or achieving any other financial goals you may have.
Where many people get into trouble is that they feel entitled to a standard of living that exceeds what they can afford. However, if you keep your standard of living below what you earn, you won't have to cut back to accumulate money; instead, you will naturally have excess cash flow because you earn more than you need to live on. In addition, keep in mind that trying to keep up with the Joneses is always a recipe for financial failure. For all you know, you may make more than the Joneses, who may be funding their lavish lifestyle with debt anyway.
The good life should be a reward for your hard work, good fortune and successful planning, not something that you are entitled to. Once you have established a certain lifestyle, it is psychologically difficult to lower it. It is very easy to raise it. 7. Become Financially LiterateMaking money is one thing; saving it and making it grow is another. Financial management and investing are lifelong endeavors. Making sound financial and investment decisions is important for achieving your financial goals. The more knowledgeable and experienced you are in financial matters, the fewer mistakes you will make. Research has shown that people who are financially literate end up with more wealth than those who are not. There is a strong monetary incentive for becoming financially sophisticated. Taking the time and effort to become knowledgeable in the areas of personal finance and investing will pay off throughout your life. 8. Seize the Opportunities: Take Calculated RisksTaking calculated risks when you are young can be a prudent decision in the long run. You might make mistakes along the way, but remember, mistakes are the lessons of wisdom. You often learn more from your mistakes than from your successes. Also, when you are young, you can recover faster from financial mistakes, and you have many years to recover.
Examples of calculated risks might include moving to a new city with more job opportunities, going back to school for additional training or taking a new job at a different company for less pay but more upside potential. Starting a new company, working for a small startup company, or investing in high risk/high return stocks, is easier to do when you're young. Younger people can afford to take risk, and the same opportunities might not be available later in life. As people get older and assume more family responsibilities like paying off the mortgage or saving for the kids' education, many are forced to play it safe and are unable to capitalize on riskier opportunities that present themselves. Taking calculated risks when you can afford to do so is necessary to get ahead financially. Playing it safe might be the bigger mistake in the long run.9. Borrow Money For Investments - Never to Finance a LifestyleAs mentioned before with the Joneses, you should never borrow to finance a lifestyle you cannot afford. Using credit for a life you feel entitled to is a losing proposition when it comes to building wealth. The constant borrowing will assure that there is no money available for investing, and the added interest expense of borrowing further increases the cost of the lifestyle.
Borrowing money should be used only for investing - where your gain will outrun your borrowing costs. This might mean investing in the literal sense (for stocks, bonds, etc.) or it might mean investing in yourself for your education, extra training, to start a business or to buy a house. In these cases, borrowing can provide the leverage you need to a reach your financial goals faster. Borrowing to meet short-term desires is counterproductive.
10. Take Advantage of Financial FreebiesNot many things in life are free. If you belong to a company pension plan, take the free money it offers and make sure that you contribute at least up to the maximum of what your company will match. You can also look for (legal) ways to take advantage of tax laws. For example, contributing to an individual retirement account (IRA) will result in a tax savings - in effect, the government is giving you free money to provide an incentive to contribute. There is also an incentive to invest in stocks because of favorable tax treatment on capital gains and dividend income.ConclusionAchieving financial independence is a goal most people strive for. It is not necessarily easy, but it is achievable if you understand your priorities, set achievable goals and take the proper steps toward reaching them.
3. Become a Planner, Not a Saver: Research has shown that those who plan for the future end up with more wealth than those who do not. Successful people are goal oriented: they set goals and develop a plan to achieve them. For example, if you set a goal to pay off your student loans in two years, you'll have a better chance of achieving this goal than you would if you merely said you wanted to pay off your student loans, but failed to set a timetable.
Become a planner. Set goals and develop an action plan to reach them. Even the process of writing down some goals will help you to achieve them. Being goal oriented and following a plan means taking control of your life. It is an important step toward improving your financial independence and security.
4. Set Short-Term Goals - Long-Term Goals Will Take Care of ThemselvesLife holds many uncertainties - and a lot can change between now and 30 years into the future. As such, the prospect of planning far into the future is a daunting task and in many ways, it's often an exercise in futility for young investors. Rather than setting long-term goals, set a series of small short-term goals. These goals could be a simple as trying to pay off credit card debt or student loans in a matter of months. Maybe your goal is to contribute to your company's pension plan with a set salary reduction contribution each month. Setting short-term goals that will help you to advance in your career is important in helping you get ahead. Remember, these short-term goals should be measurable and precise. You can't win a race if there's no finish line. As you achieve your short-term goals, set other short-term goals. Maybe you want to buy a house, earn a promotion at work or buy a new car. The constant setting and achieving of short-term goals will ensure that you reach your longer-term goals. If your goal is to be worth a million dollars by age 40, you cannot achieve this without first achieving smaller goals like having $10,000, $50,000 or $500,000.5. Planning For Retirement: Fuggetaboutit?Just out of school, retirement planning is the last thing on your mind. So, if you have to for now, just fuggetaboutit. If you follow the other tips, you will not only be more financially secure and prepared in the short term, but you will also be financially prepared for the distant future as well. However, if you take a few steps now to start saving, like setting up automatic monthly contributions to a retirement plan like an employer-sponsored 401(k) or your own Roth IRA, compounding will work in your favor, which makes reaching your goal much easier.
6. Make Sure Your Lifestyle Costs Lag Your Income GrowthMany new graduates find that in the first couple years of working they have excess cash flow. Still used to their more frugal student spending habits, it is easy to make more money than they need. Rather than using excess income to buy new toys and live a more luxurious lifestyle, this excess could be put toward reducing debt or adding to savings. As you advance in your career and attain greater responsibility, your salary should increase. If the cost of your lifestyle lags your income growth, you will always have excess cash flow that can be put toward paying down debt, making investments, saving for a home, or achieving any other financial goals you may have.
Where many people get into trouble is that they feel entitled to a standard of living that exceeds what they can afford. However, if you keep your standard of living below what you earn, you won't have to cut back to accumulate money; instead, you will naturally have excess cash flow because you earn more than you need to live on. In addition, keep in mind that trying to keep up with the Joneses is always a recipe for financial failure. For all you know, you may make more than the Joneses, who may be funding their lavish lifestyle with debt anyway.
The good life should be a reward for your hard work, good fortune and successful planning, not something that you are entitled to. Once you have established a certain lifestyle, it is psychologically difficult to lower it. It is very easy to raise it. 7. Become Financially LiterateMaking money is one thing; saving it and making it grow is another. Financial management and investing are lifelong endeavors. Making sound financial and investment decisions is important for achieving your financial goals. The more knowledgeable and experienced you are in financial matters, the fewer mistakes you will make. Research has shown that people who are financially literate end up with more wealth than those who are not. There is a strong monetary incentive for becoming financially sophisticated. Taking the time and effort to become knowledgeable in the areas of personal finance and investing will pay off throughout your life. 8. Seize the Opportunities: Take Calculated RisksTaking calculated risks when you are young can be a prudent decision in the long run. You might make mistakes along the way, but remember, mistakes are the lessons of wisdom. You often learn more from your mistakes than from your successes. Also, when you are young, you can recover faster from financial mistakes, and you have many years to recover.
Examples of calculated risks might include moving to a new city with more job opportunities, going back to school for additional training or taking a new job at a different company for less pay but more upside potential. Starting a new company, working for a small startup company, or investing in high risk/high return stocks, is easier to do when you're young. Younger people can afford to take risk, and the same opportunities might not be available later in life. As people get older and assume more family responsibilities like paying off the mortgage or saving for the kids' education, many are forced to play it safe and are unable to capitalize on riskier opportunities that present themselves. Taking calculated risks when you can afford to do so is necessary to get ahead financially. Playing it safe might be the bigger mistake in the long run.9. Borrow Money For Investments - Never to Finance a LifestyleAs mentioned before with the Joneses, you should never borrow to finance a lifestyle you cannot afford. Using credit for a life you feel entitled to is a losing proposition when it comes to building wealth. The constant borrowing will assure that there is no money available for investing, and the added interest expense of borrowing further increases the cost of the lifestyle.
Borrowing money should be used only for investing - where your gain will outrun your borrowing costs. This might mean investing in the literal sense (for stocks, bonds, etc.) or it might mean investing in yourself for your education, extra training, to start a business or to buy a house. In these cases, borrowing can provide the leverage you need to a reach your financial goals faster. Borrowing to meet short-term desires is counterproductive.
10. Take Advantage of Financial FreebiesNot many things in life are free. If you belong to a company pension plan, take the free money it offers and make sure that you contribute at least up to the maximum of what your company will match. You can also look for (legal) ways to take advantage of tax laws. For example, contributing to an individual retirement account (IRA) will result in a tax savings - in effect, the government is giving you free money to provide an incentive to contribute. There is also an incentive to invest in stocks because of favorable tax treatment on capital gains and dividend income.ConclusionAchieving financial independence is a goal most people strive for. It is not necessarily easy, but it is achievable if you understand your priorities, set achievable goals and take the proper steps toward reaching them.
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